Terry "T-MAC" McCoy will be missed...

Richland Northeast High School has many many memories for me. One of which will always Terry McCoy whom we affectionately called "T-MAC"!

Whom I personally studied under while at RNE and am forever grateful for are TMAC and Mrs. Barbara Thomson.

The following is today's post from the Greenville Newspaper regarding the life, accomplishment, and memory of one whom today I will greatly miss:

"Long-time educator, Terry McCoy of Columbia, died Sunday.

Mr. McCoy, 61, was student activities director at Richland Northeast High School and executive director of the South Carolina Association of Student Councils. A native of Easley, Mr. McCoy was born on August 4, 1947. Following a short illness, Mr. McCoy had spent the past week at Hospice of the Upstate in Anderson.

An English and French teacher with 40 years' experience, Mr. McCoy was a respected mentor to student government leaders throughout South Carolina. Today, there are countless civic, community and business leaders who first learned their lessons of service from Mr. McCoy, affectionately known to many of them as "T-Mac". An eloquent speaker of both languages that he taught, Mr. McCoy impressed on his students the value of precision in English. He passed this passion on to the many students who have served on his award-winning school yearbook staffs.

A towering figure with a beautiful bass voice, Mr. McCoy was a true gentleman who fostered courtesy among those around him. Each of the events, he touched bore his personal stamp, as he oversaw the many details that together made those occasions successful and memorable for the participants and spectators. As Richland Northeast's first student activities director, Mr. McCoy leaves a legacy of such events he created, including the Miss Richland Northeast pageant and the school's commencement ceremony, among many others.

At Richland Northeast, Mr. McCoy established the student government, a leadership effort that is nationally recognized for its success. Student life at the school has been immeasurably enriched by Mr. McCoy's efforts. Prior to coming to Richland Northeast at the school's opening, Mr. McCoy taught at Spring Valley and Dentsville high schools. For his efforts in Richland School District Two, Mr. McCoy was in 2005 presented the Richland School District Two Unsung Hero Award.

Mr. McCoy was a devoted and active member of Eastminster Presbyterian Church, where he served as bass soloist and section leader in the Chancel Choir for 25 years. In 1991, he served as chairman of the committee to adopt the new Presbyterian Hymnal. His good will and humor were credited with making the task a smooth one. Mr. McCoy has been a member of the Carolina Chorale and the Arpad Darazs Singers. In addition, for several seasons he was a leading member of the bass section in the Palmetto Mastersingers.

Among several solos he had with the group, many of its members recall his infectious rendering of "Have a Holly, Jolly Christmas".

Mr. McCoy was an avid Gamecock fan and a loyal supporter of the Richland Northeast Cavaliers. He enjoyed the fellowship of a group of teachers and friends who went to dinner and Cavalier games together on Friday nights. His love of sports was nurtured as a young man keeping score for a local textile league baseball team in his hometown.

Especially admired for his efforts to develop high quality student councils, Mr. McCoy was a member of the National Association of Student Councils, the National Association of Workshop Directors and National Association of State Student Council Executive Directors. He served as a mentor to new executive directors of the NASSCED and was on the organization's executive board. Mr. McCoy was a member of the Southern Association of Student Councils, one of the oldest student council organizations in the naation.

Prior to assuming the role of executive director of the South Carolina Association of Student Councils in 1985, Mr. McCoy was the assistant executive director for three years. Under Mr. McCoy's direction, the organization's state summer leadership training camp has grown to capacity, training hundreds of students in leadership skills. Many participants fondly recall their experiences at the camp, commonly referred to among them as "Cherry Grove" for the location in which it is held.

In 2007, Mr. McCoy developed the first Middle School Student Council Workshop in South Carolina, which is held in January in conjunction with the SCASC Advisors' Workshop.

Mr. McCoy was recognized for his service to student councils with the 1994 nomination for the Southern Association of Student Councils Advisor of the Year; the 1995 SCASC Advisor of the Year; the 1996 NASC South Carolina Warren E. Shull winner and the 2003 NASC/NAWD Earl Reum Award - Region 3 winner. In 2007, Mr. McCoy was recognized at the state convention for 30 years of service to SCASC.

A 1965 graduate of Easley High School, Mr. McCoy graduated in 1969 from the University of South Carolina. He was a former treasurer of the South Carolina Foreign Language Teachers Association.

Mr. McCoy was preceded in death by his parents, Troy E. and Varo McCoy. He is survived by two sisters, Dot M. Brown and Glenda M. Cannon and husband, Buddy, all of Easley; three nieces, Tomi Lane, Linda Adams and Teresa Bearden; and a nephew, Glenn Cannon; two great-nephews, Heath Lane and Bradley Cannon; three great-nieces, Kelli Hunt, Leslie Mousa and Marlee Cannon; two great-great-nephews, Kaleb Land and Kolton Lane; and a great-great-niece, Cadence Mousa.

Private graveside services will be at a later date at Hillcrest Memorial Park with Rev. Jeff Mousa officiating.

The family requests that memorials to Mr. McCoy be made to Hospice of the Upstate, 1835 Rogers Road, Anderson, SC 29621 or the Terry A. McCoy Leadership Scholarship, c/o the Central Carolina Community Foundation, 2711 Middleburg Drive, Suite 213, Columbia, SC 29204."

Early December update

It has been awhile since i last put a blog post up so i thought a Sunday afternoon one would be a good time for one. I've got all the gifts bought, well except for Grandma who is always the person i need Mom's help with in buying. But I'm getting very excited, even though it does not seem like Christmas is 18 days away. It's been a slow month thus far and it appears as it will be a slow one all the way through, which I am thankful for!

I don't know if I've ever quoted Reverend Billy Graham on my blog, but i thought the following excerpt was worth it:

In his recent letter to supporters of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, Graham writes: "I also told my friend that my main reaction as I have approached my 90th birthday has been one of deep gratitude and thankfulness. For seven decades, my calling has been to preach the simple message of the Gospel: that God loves us, that He sent His Son into the world to take away our sins by His death on the cross, that we can be forgiven adn reconciled to God through faith in Christ as our Lord and Savior, that through Him we can have hope--hope for a new life right now, and hope for a joyous eternity with Him in Heaven"

More Books I've Read for 2008:

I read at least one Lucado book a year, and usually it is not the current one! Facing your Giants gives a character look at the popular Old Testament figure David. Born a shepherd boy who later becomes King, Lucado drives the reader to see the successes and flaws of not just David but his/hers as well.

She may not be Liberal American's favorite, but she has instilled tenacity and a new wave of GOP leadership into American politics. This book gives a touching history and background of the Sarah Palin many know but don't know much about! Definite read if you enjoy US politics.

I usually don't read books very fast, as comprehension is a difficult for me; however, this book and the book above and below were all read in a matter of a few sit-downs. Mouw, though sometimes a little inclusive in his theology of salvation, describes an accurate description of anyone who describes to a non or pro calvinistic theology. What description would that be? Love! How important it is to love others like Christ loves us no matter where we agree, disagree, or agree to disagree!

Some of you may or may not know, but dad allowed us (randy and I) to watch professional wrestling growing up. To this day I do enjoy the matches and hoolah of wrestlers both on and off the mat. But by far, Sting has been my favorite ever since I can remember. This autobiographical looks shows how a man so well-known and involved in a world-ly lifestyle turned to place his faith and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. Read it in about 3 hours.

ABC bans flag lapel pins

here is an interesting find:

" I have checked this out on Truthorfiction.com and on Snopes.com. This is true and even though I will have little effect on ABC News revenue I do plan on being careful to not view any program that is on ABC and boycott, if at all possible, the sponsors of ABC. Barbara Walters said that this was going to hurt ABC bad. As you know she works for ABC.

ABC NEWS BANS FLAG LAPEL PINS!

YESTERDAY THE BRASS AT ABC NEWS ISSUED ORDERS FORBIDDING REPORTERS TO WEAR LAPEL PIN AMERICAN FLAGS OR OTHER PATRIOTIC INSIGNIA. THEIR REASONING WAS THAT ABC SHOULD REMAIN NEUTRAL ABOUT 'CAUSES'.

SINCE WHEN IS SUPPORT FOR PREVENTING DEATH AND DESTRUCTION SOME SORT OF A 'CAUSE'? SINCE WHEN IS PATRIOTISM TO BE DISCOURAGED?

I URGE YOU TO BOYCOTT ABC AND ITS SPONSORS AND AFFILIATES. WE ARE SLOWLY LOSING EVERYTHING OUR COUNTRY STANDS FOR AND EVERYTHING OUR MEN AND WOMEN FOUGHT AND DIED TO PRESERVE!

PLEASE FORWARD THIS TO AS MANY AS YOU CAN. THIS HAS BEEN VERIFIED THROUGH: http://www.snopes.com/rumors/noflags.asp

as well as through:

http://www.truthorfiction.com/rumors/a/abcflag.htm"

very interesting.... -pc

Concerning the 2008 presidential election

I admire Walt Mueller to a great extent. His concern for media and students has been enjoyed on my part since I started seminary in 2004. Here is a recent thought off of his blog concerning our post-election rollercoaster:

"According to some people, the world ended at around 11pm last Tuesday night. Now, these people are depressed, down-in-the-dumps, morose, etc. Many of these people are fellow followers of Christ. I've even heard some of these people speculate on whether or not Barack Obama might be the Antichrist. By the way, I've been around long enough to have heard the same about other Antichrists dujour.

According to other people, the world began at 11pm last Tuesday night. It appeared to me that many of the people who descended on Grant Park and other places around the country to celebrate Obama's victory were heralding "good tidings" of "great joy," almost as if the Savior had come.

I understand that these seem like blanket overstatements on my part. However, they capture the two ends of response on the 2008 electoral spectrum. I voted. I won't tell you how I voted. Some of my fellow believers would be happy with my vote. Others might think I'm off my rocker. I know because I've had these discussions. As I voted, I tried to do so through the lens of my Biblical world and life view. Sure, that perspective informed the issues for me and directed my decision on who to vote for. But even more than that, it gave me perspective. So as the sudden void of a 24/7 barrage of political messages and posturing has left me with more time to think, I'd like to share some perspective. . . for the simple reason that I think our responses to the election are often indicators of a lack of faith and Christian maturity, rather than a sign of faith and Christian maturity.

So. . . . my thoughts. . . .not exhaustive. . . . and certainly not very deep. . .

God's got this all under control. He's taking our country and world where He wants it to be. To those who think that it's all starting to fall apart due to the election results, you need to realize that it was all falling apart a long time ago. And if we are proud enough to believe that it wasn't all shattered until now. . . well, that's just a sign that our own falling apart led us to accept and believe a delusion. Which is, of course, proof positive that it's all fallen apart. In my own humble opinion that's based on my own personal experience. . . I think we feel good about the country when we feel good. And feeling good is predicated on the chicken in our own pot and the car in our own garage. It's symptomatic of our deeply embedded North American materialism, which is - by the way - epidemic in the church and our homes. Maybe, just maybe, a crisis that would shatter our idols and force us to our knees in dependence on God is just what the Creator ordered and just what we need for the sake of our own spiritual growth.

If God's in control, then we don't need to be afraid. So. . . . why are we? Perhaps we should be spending less time complaining about the change we think is about to come, and more time looking in the mirror at the changes that need to come in our own lives based on our fear. . . . including a little more dependence on God.

Government can't save us. Numerous societies have been down that road all throughout history, and it's never worked. Those who think Obama is the Savior are wrong. And those who think that Obama is the opposite are equally wrong. . . . simply because their despair is an indicator of the fact that they have relied on the political status quo to save them (whatever that means), and now that the political status quo has moved them from a place of comfort to discomfort, the world and their lives are doomed. Either way is idolatrous. . . replacing the Creator with something created.

Let's say Obama is the Antichrist as some Christians believe (and there's no way of really knowing is there?). Do we really think that our vote could have changed God's grand plan to redeem His world and work out what He's had in store for all eternity in His way and His time?

Maybe the most valuable thing to come out of this election is the truth about ourselves. We live in a media saturated world with a media that's saturated by spin. Fair and balanced? I don't think it exists anywhere or at either end of the spectrum. Yet, we still buy into it when it caters to our leanings. Truth is, as well, that our world is hungry for the Redeemer. Obama won't do it. And truth is, as well, that the component of the church that placed their faith in McCain and Palin are equally wrong. Don't misread what I'm saying so that you hear me say that however you voted you were wrong. I'm simply saying that many on both sides have placed their faith in people and things that don't warrant our allegiance.

So, for the next two months and some days our responsibility as God-following citizens of this country is to live under the authority of our current leaders as long as they don't require us to disobey the authority of our Lord. In addition, we should be praying for the President and all others in authority. And, when the new administration takes over, these commitments must continue.

And remember, "as iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."

Finally, I knew my blog title would catch your attention..."

Labor Day '08

The weekend didn't turn out like I had planned. Wednesday I left from Myrtle and drove to Raleigh to catch a flight to New Orleans. I had intended on looking into PhD work at the seminary, spend the weekend with my family and our friends, fly back to Raleigh Monday morning, and then head back to Myrtle late afternoonish. For some reason Gustav came...Knowing what happened three years ago as the entire Gulf Coast looked at Katrina beckoning its devestation in a category five kind of way, I speedily called UNITED (my LEAST favorite airline in America) and was blessed to get a seat on the noon flight on Friday. Flying into Washington just makes me nervous because destiny had it for the catering truck to hit the airplane.

So...NO extra planes for the over eighty passengers so that sent us to customer service line, and i was proud to be the second in line. A quick nights stay at the Hyatt and an early Saturday morning proved another airline (US Airways, woohoo) with a layover in Charlotte (CLT) and a 11:15am arrival into Raleigh. I would like to take a brief moment to thank Ryan and Melissa for their traveling agency logistics for me during all the above.

So is life... you can make the best of plans for the best mini-vacation you can get, but God's way is always going to be done whether you or I like it or not, and even WITHOUT those delicious beignets i just love to eat my fill of when I'm in the city of Nawlins.

PRAY FOR THE CITY OF NEW ORLEANS, PRAY FOR THE NEW ORLEANS BAPTIST THEOLOGICAL SEMINARY, AND THE BEACON OF HOPE AND LIGHT FOR CHRIST THEY WILL CONTINUE TO HAVE AS THEY MINISTER IN THE AREA, YET AGAIN!

I'm adding FOUR more books read to the list and here they are:

Yaconelli is the co-creator of Youth Specialties and had an adventurous life as a radical believer in Jesus Christ. You will read of his heart for people to not just know Christ but to experience the joy and satisfaction we know only remains in Christ. This is a little of the box, and a great picture of Grace and how believers are to model grace to this society and culture.

What a great book and instilling of the notion to just say NO! Fields raises specific and soul-searching questions that will engage the reader in his/her ministry, whatever it may be. Quick, easy, and yet so powerful!


A great read for smaller churches with only one pastor. Not only does it encourage one's call to pastor and lead a small flock, but also a reminder to large and mega church pastors of the sacrifice many make in the smaller field for the cause of Christ!

This is your typical "how i communicate or preach" book and it was a really good read. I read it back in March on a plane to Texas for another NAMB missionary week, I just kept forgetting to put it on this piece. I haven't heard Stanley speak a full sermon, but I know this books is years of trying, messing up, and finding out something worked for his communication style.

And on a side note: For those of us who loved www.CampusI.com for our book needs, they changed the named to: www.dealoz.com

Here is my summer reading...

Here are two books I finished this Summer and another two i completed in the Spring:

Great read if you want something out-of-the-box. For fans of Blue Like Jazz (which I read last fall) and anything thats not your typical-christian-living pick up. My friend Richard said it was great and one of the best he had read in awhile, it was good just not the best.

In my vain efforts to try and figure out the opposite sex, i tried my yearly relationship book and it was pretty decent. It was a little repetitive but short and to the point in some areas. Thinking ladies should read it, too!

It has been a long time coming, but back to one of my favorite authors in my library. I had been wanting this book since it came out 2 years ago at the Lifeway I was working at, and i was able to pick it up for $5 a the five buck christian bookstore at tanger. AWESOME READ!

I started this one last summer in July and I finished it around late April, finally. It was probably the longest book I've ever read cover to cover (besides the Bible) and the persistence paid off. What a great history of the work and movement of the Conservative Resurgence in the Southern Baptist Convention. EVERY Southern Baptists needs to read this!

Question and Answers with NAMB

a. How old were you when you answered the call to ministry?

I was 15 years old when I accepted my call to full time Christian ministry and service. This calling occurred at a World Changers mission week in Charleston, West Virginia, just weeks after I finished my freshman year in high school. I will never ever forget it. I have reflected often on this time and this commitment to my Savior and I today rejoice in that He called me… even me!

b. How did you know you were called to ministry?

Many things occurred after my call to ministry. Godly parents, Sunday school teachers, Christian adults, and leaders affirmed me in my decision. Through lots of prayer, reading God’s Word and getting in on the actual doing of ministry and service that God calls us to, helped affirm the call for my life to serve Him in Christian vocation.

c. What do you know now that you wish you knew when you answered God’s call?

Following Christ isn’t easy. When Christ told His disciples to deny themselves and to take up their cross, the same is true today. People will not agree with your call to follow and answer God’s call. There will be what seems to be better things to do with your time and your money, but a call to Christ is a call to deny self. You will meet more people than you ever wanted to know, go places you never knew existed, and experience things you will never think imaginable as you walk and delight yourself in Him.

d. What is the best advice you would give a student entering the ministry today?

Love God with all that you have, Love others more than you love yourself, and live a life of Love. Ministry exists because people exist. If there were no people, there would be no ministry. If you and I can’t love the people that God has put in front of us, than our ministry will never affect the Kingdom of God. Throughout the Scripture, we see Jesus loving people, ministering to people, touching people, healing people, and teaching them about the Kingdom. Be a Kingdom person who loves like the King does!

changing times

I recognize that I have not blogged since March 26th and that is tragic!

2008 has been thus far an incredible faith journey in Christ. Tonight as I sit and type this blog entry, I have been reflecting and thinking of the events/situations/experiences of the past months that make my journey difficult and astounding all at the same time.

This summer I am continuing to speak to students in our ministry four nights a week in our resort missions INTRACOASTAL OUTREACH. You have to understand, that these four weekly talks I have thought about since last summer concluded. The idea of "love" is our theme this year and it has been a personally interesting journey in seeking God's Word and really hearing from Him in which passages to speak from for the evening services at our Holiday Inn West hotel.

I am not one to talk about relationships, dating, and the time in which LOVE springs forth in those life events. I hope i never have to really, because it seems to me that everyone has their opinion (with Scripture to back them up of course) and I'm just not going there. There are so many other things about LOVE that I read and am personally convicted of throughout the Bread of Life.

My friend Wil Owens once wrote a book and noted, "The sure sign of intimacy with God is that our circumstances do not change our passion to know God and dwell in His presence." Love and intimacy - now there are two words that go hand-in-hand!

This spring has been an up-and-down time of highs and lows which have really made me think on how "I love those around me". LOVE is one of the greatest gifts we have from God, not only to love ourselves, love others, but most importantly to Love the Lord our God! I'm so glad that despite what happens in this life, God will always love me. I'm thrilled to know that despite my inadequacies, failures, weaknesses, mistakes, and mess-ups, that God will still love me.

Oh what a foretaste of Glory Divine!

Aunt Linda

3 weeks ago today my aunt, Linda Watford, went to the medical university of South Carolina to have a heart valve replaced. The surgery was successful, with no complications, and my family waited patiently for her to wake up. somewhere between that Wednesday, march 5 and the following sunday, march 9 my aunt Linda suffered a stroke which went undetected until doctors ran a ct scan.

Currently, my aunt is awake and is making progress. very slowly. As of last Wednesday she can move her head, her left arm, left leg, and can smile if the right joke is cracked. The last i heard on Tuesday was that she is now supporting her head on her own, somewhat. that's a big deal.

We don't know how much motion or cognizance she will recover, or how quickly. it's a waiting game to a large degree.

I am posting all this, and will continue to give updates, so that anyone who reads it will see the needs of my family and will pray for my aunt Linda, her husband Don, their son Brian and his family, their daughter Heather and her family, and all of our extended family.

I love my aunt! She provided for me a lot in college and she is probably the closest person to me in my extended family, and i ask for your prayerful support for my family during this time.

(thanks Randy for putting this all into words and for letting me revise this for my blog)

It is almost March..... already

Some of you i know check daily for updates on this piece just awaiting a newfound thought and inspiration from me..... just kidding! It has been awhile so I think a note will be justice for each of you:)

It has been an incredible years already, and i have traveled many miles already. Ministry as a US/C2 missionary is fascinating, and we found out on Thursday that I have been approved to serve for an extra year, so i guess they can call me the US/C3 now... i dunno.

Many of you know that we lost our Group Coordinator at Intracoastal Outreach back in August for another position, so we went August - First of February without one. I am so thankful for a new Group Coordinator in our office and the work Kristyn will do for our ministry as we strive to grow and build ICO for the Kingdom.

Here's a funny story: This morning I preached at one of our WBA churches out in Galivants Ferry. I preached on Job as a man of Faith out of the first two chapters in the book of Job and concluded in the latter part of the end in chapter 42. I left the church after the service to head back this way to the beach, already having planned to eat at Zaxby's for lunch (cause i had this taste for good chicken fingers). So here I was driving down the road and i felt this thing in my pocket. I was like, 'don't tell me i left the church with the wireless microphone'. Sure enough, I had done just that. Figuring I'd call the pastor (who was on his way back from vacation) sometime this afternoon, I was to focused on eating lunch because preaching makes me really hungry. As I am eating my lunch inside at the Zaxby's place, one of the students in the church gets out of his truck and comes in to order. I get his attention, ask him if he is going back to church tonight, and he replied that he was. I then asked him, laughing on the inside of course, if he would do me a favor by taking the microphone back to the church. Immediately he called his pastor (thankfully the pastor did not answer), because he just couldn't believe I 'stole' the church's mic. Funny story, and I thought you'd get a kick out of it.

I've been to three conferences already, and i fly out this Friday for a NAMB event, where I'll speak five times about the ministry (Intracoastal Outreach) that I'm a part of here in myrtle beach. One of my goals this year is to read a 'youth ministry' book each month, so a total of 12 for the year. Below are the two I have already read to reach my goal:

1. A New Kind of Student Ministry - by Chris Folmsbee

2. Love This! - by Andy Braner

Probably one of the greatest blessings of my ministry position is meeting new people and getting to know others more closely. The list below is some of those that I'm thankful for putting into my life over the past two months, and others who are constantly a part of my life in a special way:

1. Richard, Sarah, and Douglas Jenkins
2. Todd, Amy, Ellyn-Kate, Caroline, and Abby Wood
3. Waccamaw Baptist Association, all WBA pastors, and Brother Rick and Donna Astle
4. Renee Sullivan and Lee Avery
5. ICO's new group coordinator Kristyn Sewell (praise the Lord for her)
6. Ministry encouragers and partners like Larry Lemming and Amanda Bouchillon at Lowcountry Ministry
7. NAMB missionary-family like Randy and Jeannie Mullinax, other US/C2'ers Erika Holt and Michelle Bruss... and new friends like Chad Moore and Jennifer Mackey
8. Of course, i cannot be a miss to mention my bestest friends Ryan and Melissa Peduzzi who have a new found love for me and trekking Himalayan Mountains in Nepal :)
9. Caroline Wham, who sadly sunk the Hunley to get a ride in a silver Camry
10. and to wrap up a long list, every WMU lady who prays for me, those back home at North Trenholm and those everywhere who lift me up in prayer before the Father of Lights!

So to close this post on this sometimes-ever-so-slow-updating blog, I will end with a picture of Ryan and Melissa and I on the airplane from the country of Qatar headed to America! And please notice my shirt that shows the Yak-Yak-Yak-Yaks and Ryans hot red north face coat:)

CHARLESTON SOUTHERN and BRETT FAVRE?

GREEN BAY, Wis. -- Brett Favre is leaning toward returning for another season with the Green Bay Packers, according to comments he made to his hometown newspaper.

In a story posted on the Web site of the Biloxi (Miss.) Sun-Herald, the record-setting quarterback says he isn't approaching Saturday's playoff game against the Seattle Seahawks like it will be his final game in Green Bay. "Each week, I bring more stress on myself wondering if this is too good to be true," Favre told the Sun-Herald. "I want to continue the streak and winning. When I talk about the streak, it's not the [consecutive] starts; it's the hot streak we are on. Then, I ask what can I do better?

"I am trying to enjoy it because this could be my last game in Green Bay," he said. "For the first time in three years, I haven't thought this could be my last game. I would like to continue longer." At least two members of Favre's family don't want him to retire: his daughters, Brittany, a freshman at Charleston Southern, and Breleigh.

"Brittany was up here [in Green Bay last weekend] and drove to get ice cream," Favre told the Sun-Herald. "It was like pulling teeth to get Brittany and Breleigh to get out of the car to get the ice cream. But we didn't argue about it being my last game like we have in the past. We talked about Brittany coming back in this weekend from Charleston Southern for what could be my last game. "Breleigh then spoke up and said, 'Dad, don't retire.' And Brittany said, 'Dad, I think you need to play one more year," Favre told the newspaper.

While it has been widely assumed that Favre would come back to play next season after having one of the best years of his career, both he and Packers coach Mike McCarthy have said the future Hall of Famer would wait until after the season to address the issue. In his 17th season, Favre led the Packers to a 13-3 record with 28 touchdowns, 4,155 passing yards and a quarterback rating of 95.7, his best in 11 seasons. For his career, Favre has 442 TD passes, 61,655 passing yards and 5,377 pass completions.

Favre's now-annual flirtation with retirement has taken on a life of its own in Wisconsin. He has taken weeks and even months in recent years to make up his mind. "I have a lot to think about. It's been a fun year and winning has made it a good year," Favre told the newspaper. "For the first time in a couple of years, at this point, my focus is solely on Seattle and winning a playoff game at home."

Favre's favorite receiver, Donald Driver, said Wednesday he hoped Favre would return. "Oh, yeah. Of course," Driver said. "I hope so. ... But I don't know. I hope he comes back, but if not, he had a great career. I'm happy for that, and I'm glad I'm a part of it."

Information from The Associated Press was used in this report.

~ kudos to Mary Torretta for giving me this wonderful report found online at ESPN